Guess Which One Used a Matchmaker?
Dating Today Feels Broken
Dating is supposed to feel exciting. Hopeful. Even fun. But for a lot of people right now, it feels more like an unpaid part-time job with no clear reward. You’re stuck in the loop of swiping, matching, messaging, waiting, following up, waiting again, and trying to decode silence. The people you're talking to might not even be looking for the same thing.
That’s the version of dating most of us are handed today. And it’s exhausting.
Two Realities, Side by Side
The image above says a lot. On the left is someone many of us have been. Staring at a phone, wondering if that person will ever respond. On the right is someone who made a different choice — someone on a real date, engaged, present, and smiling across the table.
That person didn’t get lucky. They got clear. They worked with a matchmaker.
What Matchmaking Actually Does
As the founder of Met By Nick, I talk to singles every week who are burnt out on the apps. These people are not lazy. They’re intentional, high-quality, emotionally available adults who have been stuck in a dating system that rewards impulsivity over sincerity.
Matchmaking isn’t a quick fix. It’s not a fairy tale. But it’s a real alternative. It’s curated. It’s human. It’s about introducing two people who are ready, who have been vetted, and who are meeting with mutual interest and clarity.
No ghosting. No games. Just grown-up dating with purpose.
Why I Started Met By Nick
I started this service because I believe people deserve more than breadcrumb conversations and half-hearted replies. My approach to matchmaking is deeply personal. I take the time to get to know you, understand what you’re looking for, and connect you with people who align with that.
You're not a swipe. You're not a maybe. You're someone who deserves to be seen — and to meet someone who feels the same way.
Ready to Date Differently?
If you’re ready to stop guessing and start dating with clarity:
